If you have read my blog over the last six years, you know that I have said numerous times that I will never remarry.
Well, I proposed to R on Sunday.
Yeah. It surprised me too. I mean, we’ve only been dating for three months, but she is absolutely the most perfect person for me. I love how I feel when we are together. I love how she just touches me when we are in the car. I love how she smiles at me. I love how we can cuddle all night when we are together. I love how we can just be together, and don’t have to do anything. I love how we do different things. I love her. Madly.
And, of course, I’ve already been asked by numerous people what happens if the ex-wife comes back. And my answer is, she is not coming back. Its not a question based in reality. “But what if she does?”.
The woman I married in 1983 does not exist anymore. There was a time when I would have welcomed her back with no hesitation, but that time passed quite some time ago. P disavowed just about everything that was a part of our marriage, which to me means it was a sham.
And she never communicated her needs, so why would she start now? It would just be a road to disaster.
With R, I have what I’ve always wanted. I have someone I love. I have someone who loves me. I have someone who talks to me, and expresses her wants and needs. I have someone that I want to be with, and spend forever with.
I still find myself in shock that my story has a happy ending.
But I have found my princess. And I plan to never let her go!