Blocked!!

Ooh, that darn writer’s block! I’m finally seeing my therapist, and she has a writing assignment for me, but every time I sit down to do my “homework”, all I can do is think about my ex wife.  I’m supposed to be concentrating on my past failure in a relationship, but I’m stuck 6.5 years…

Seeking Help

There comes a time when you have to have help to get through the day. For some, its alcohol, for others it may be drugs.  Some people cope by getting out of town and just enjoying the open air.  But sometimes its time for a professional to step in and help you get your life…

What do I want?

I’ve started seeing a new therapist, and in our first session she asked me what I wanted. I was not sure how to answer that.  What did I want?  From what?  Our sessions, life, what I want for lunch?   Did it have to be an obtainable want, or could it be just fantasy?   How can…

Mourning a lost love

I have found myself a bit sad for the last several days. Which is sad in itself.  I’m back dating again, and I’m dating three wonderful women, two of which just happen to know each other!   I don’t know how serious these dates will get, but at least I am socializing and having fun.  I’m…

For every action …

It has been an interesting week for me. I’ve been working on a letter to the ex-girlfriend for several weeks.  When I started it, the letter was a plea to come back and work things out.   As I went back and read what I wrote, I started thinking that perhaps I needed to rethink my…