Blocked!!

Ooh, that darn writer’s block! I’m finally seeing my therapist, and she has a writing assignment for me, but every time I sit down to do my “homework”, all I can do is think about my ex wife.  I’m supposed to be concentrating on my past failure in a relationship, but I’m stuck 6.5 years…

So many memories

When people find out I’ve been divorced for almost 5 years, they all ask me why I’m not dating. They don’t understand that I’m just not ready. I was with my ex for 30 years, from the time we dated, until the time she left me. That is over half my life. 3 wonderful decades,…

Shocking News!

I know… it sounds like one of those stories on the internet that you should never click on, but in this case, the news was very shocking to me, in more ways than one. And yes, this is about the ex again. I have been doing more cleaning around the house, and I found some…

31

If you’ve read my blog, then you know that today (Valentine’s Day) is my 31st anniversary. True, I have not been married for almost 4 years now, but that doesn’t change the fact that 31 years ago I married my beloved sweetheart. A lot has changed in the last four years, some good, a lot…

A sense of a new freedom

The birthday/wedding day has passed, and everything is getting back to normal. She has started her new life with the biker boy, and I’m dealing with it. I know you are curious, so here are the details (at least the ones I have). From what I’ve been told, everyone showed up for the surprise party,…

End of year musings

I know, its been a while since I’ve posted, but fall is the time of year when I am ultra busy, with my sports engagements, chorus engagements, and my work schedule has been unbelievably busy, with several weeks of 12-14 hour days 6-7 days a week. Yeah, I’m a bit tired. It’s been just a…

I’m going to have some fun today!

I’m going to do something today that I’ve never done, and its really my fault for never doing it.  I’m going to ride my motorcycle with a group. I recently traded my smaller motorcycle in for a new Honda Gold Wing (its a touring bike, in case you didn’t know).   I’m honestly not sure why…