Oh hell, not the dreams again!

There has been a lot going on in my life the past few weeks, mostly involving my adult son. It was a serious episode, and his mom (my ex) needed to be involved.   Fortunately, everything is okay with my son, and that’s the best news. But I had a lot of interaction with my ex…

Oh dear, I am a stalker!

Some of my friends have teased me about stalking my ex-wife, but I never really thought it was true…. that is, until the other night. My ex posted some photos around her new living quarters in Las Vegas, and I thought it would be fun to look at those photos, and see if I could…

5 Years today

Today marks the 5th anniversary since I heard those words that I was afraid would be coming. “I don’t want to be married to you any more”. She told me on Sunday.   Then four days later, on Thursday I was laid off from my job.   That night, we went to counseling, and she told the…

So many memories

When people find out I’ve been divorced for almost 5 years, they all ask me why I’m not dating. They don’t understand that I’m just not ready. I was with my ex for 30 years, from the time we dated, until the time she left me. That is over half my life. 3 wonderful decades,…

Shocking News!

I know… it sounds like one of those stories on the internet that you should never click on, but in this case, the news was very shocking to me, in more ways than one. And yes, this is about the ex again. I have been doing more cleaning around the house, and I found some…

Did I give up?

Late next month will mark the fourth anniversary of our divorce. I still have bad days to go with the good, but I think I’m rounding the bend. However it was brought up to me recently that I had given up on my marriage instead of fighting for it. I didn’t believe it, but now…

31

If you’ve read my blog, then you know that today (Valentine’s Day) is my 31st anniversary. True, I have not been married for almost 4 years now, but that doesn’t change the fact that 31 years ago I married my beloved sweetheart. A lot has changed in the last four years, some good, a lot…

A very strange dream about the Ex

I dream about my ex all the time.  Yes, its been over 3 and a half years, but she still remains on my mind.  I’m always reminded of her, and despite people saying that I have to forget her, its over and done… well, I just have not made it that far. But I’m in a…